What can I do about this person (Pic inside)?

I really like him, he is in Iraq right now deployed and will come back in june and be out of the army for good, he joined when he was 17 for a period of 5 years... a Speacial forces Medical Sergeant


He is 22 speaks spanish portuguese and french





one thing I don't like about him as that he has no college at all and will start at the age of 22, he said he could not afford NYU and did not want to go to the local college because he wants to be a dentist and would lower his chances at getting into dental school.. I'm going to be a graduate this year and be dating one just starting college





I knew him before in high school and somehow he got my email from a friend and we just where attracted to each other








http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v93/mi...





what do you think of him? the person and appearance?


what can I do? I don;t like that he has no college at all





help please

What can I do about this person (Pic inside)?
He's absolutely gorgeous. The experience he's had in the army will give him an added maturity to finish college. The fact that you are graduating and he'll just be starting college is a very small factor. I don't see why you are looking at that as a negative especially when he's obviously independent and goal oriented. If you let this one go due to the little things you're stuck on you might regret it. I say give him a chance and give the two of you a chance. Any other girl would be more than happy to take him off your hands if you don't. Trust me on that one. ';-)
Reply:hes cute
Reply:That hair is NOT regulation soldier!





He should be getting great college assistance so I dunno what the problem is.
Reply:um hum i really don't know if you like him go for it ;)
Reply:wow so because he join the army in probably most hardest job for 5 years you don't think he is worth your time?





amazing
Reply:ya wait for him to go to college... if he does.. than u can go for him or do wht u feel like
Reply:That shouldn't matter.





If he NEVER wanted an education, that would be one thing. But right now hes defending our country and going to school after.





Its not his fault he couldn't afford NYU and has high goals.





And hes cute :)





I'd give him a shot.
Reply:he is cute go for it
Reply:Education isn't everything.





He's a SOLDIER. He's serving his country PROUDLY.


Don't judge him because of life choices. It's not like he doesn't want to go. Right now he doesn't have a choice.





I wouldn't date him if I were you.. only because after reading this. I don't think you deserve to date one of America's finest.





edit:


Hair is DEF not regulated. Maybe he's not rly a soldier?... hmm.
Reply:No offense but I think it is pretty shallow that you are basing a possible relationship on his scholastics. He has been serving his country for the past 5 yrs and currently in Iraq for christ sake!





Plus its not like he doesn't want to go to college - he is just making decisions to best suit his current situation
Reply:Darling...You should be happy that he wants to go to college and he has such big dreams ahead...it doesn't seem like you have true feelings for him.He even has better chances getting a lower tuition at NYU because of his military service...you don't know how lucky you are...
Reply:Just because he hasn't yet been to college doesn't mean he is a bad person or anything.





If you give him enough reasons to go i'm sure he will want to.





But you cant control him and if you feel that this tiny tiny thing is going to hurt your relation ship , i don't recommend going any further.





Its down to you because after all you are the one with the problem towards him.





Good luck.
Reply:I have a question for you. Do you love him??? Can you imagine your life without him?? Do you see yourself with someone else?? Look into your heart, and your heart will let you know what to do. To be sincere with you what is important in life is not when he finish college or start college or anything like that, as long as there is love, and you know that he is a responsible person with goals for his future then what does it matter what anyone else think?? Sweety just listen to your heart...Good luck!
Reply:If you really like it shouldn't matter. He has been in the army it's not like he just didn't want to go to school. At least he is trying to make something of himself. I could see if he wasn't trying to go to school and didn't want to. I think he is very cute and he sounds like a nice guy who wants the best for himself. Work with him. I don't think it matters, he isn't a bum or living off you. You should appreciate that you have him and he is safe.
Reply:his good looking seems intelligent give him a chance at least his going to college